I have a close friend that's taken. Lately it feels like they won't put effort into our friendship anymore since it doesnt take priority. What would you do?
i’m only saying this because this is what i did, but its not necessarily the only way or the right way to go about it. But back home when my close friend had her boyfriend, it was true that its not just us two and our friends anymore, there will be those moments where we dont see her for a day and she comes around the corner hand in hand with him. Which is cool, and i know what you mean when you said that your friendship doesnt mean so much anymore. But regardless, i was still there, i showed her i was gona be there for her in case of anything. Whether she knew it or not or whether she still knows it or not, i’m gonna be there for her no matter what.
There were certain times in a year where we spend more time together because we both did sports and those days were good because i knew we supported each other the most during those times. And there were times that she would be in a fight but i was the first person she came to talk about it with. And i’m sure if you guys were really close, youll be the first she tells everything to too.
her birthday is in the beginning of september and i havent seen her since graduation and i was on vacation. i knew i just had to be there for her at least one more time before we both leave for college. So what happened was i called up her boyfriend, and organized a surprised birthday for her at her house. I think she noes i still care about her.
so i guess my point is, lay low and dont harass him or her about spending all their time with their significant other only. Show them youre still here, and he or she will eventually see it and appreciate you even more in due time. :D
I was on the bus back to Oakes when i saw an NA from our building, ATL, looking in my general direction from the front of the bus. I waved and caught his attention then went back to playing my game on my iTouch.
I got off my own stop about 2 mins later. And about 15 mins later, i was going downstairs with my laundry when i ran into ATL again at the stairwell. He asked me what i was doing on the bus. Texting? And i said i was playing Robot Unicorn Attack on my itouch. xD so embarassing. haha I asked him why and he said it was because after we waved hi to each other, he noticed a girl kept staring at my itouch over my shoulder on the bus. And so ATL thought i was "texting something juicy". haha i said nah.. it was just a game. =P
Atl then went on telling me that i had entertained that girl for a good bus stop. haha
well random girl, i’m glad i made ur day a little bit more entertained. haha
You’re just reminding them of the mistakes they made back then. If you watch their facial expression carefully, then you’ll see the hurt in their eyes as they reminisce everything that happened. Never use emotion as a weapon, it strikes deeper than you can imagine.
YAY i’m home right now. i’m so happy to be back (:
so what did i do today…
At 3:00-3:30 i got to spend some time with someone special ;D. By 4:00 I had already left Oakes and started my way towards DTown SC. By 5, I met up with my bus buddy and we started to leave SC. omg longest ride ever, with traffic and all. But in the end, we finally made it back to SL. but this guy hella forgot his house keys. where to kick it, but my house right. So we ended up going to chipotle for dinner cuz my mom already finished her dinner by the time we got to the house. BOOOO. anyways. AS I WAS PULLING AWAY, i noticed that my car was acting dumb. and i pulled over and saw that my front right tire was jacked up. so i drove back home being alll sad cuz i really wanted chipotle D: turns out my car tire popped. O_O and i drove with a flat tire. this got my car all messd up UGH. in the end, i took my moms car, drove to CV got chipotle and quicklies and drove back to SL. By the time we got back it was 10:30 so we started to watch the hangover. it was sooo funny. omg i havent seen it in so long, everything was hilarious to me again. :D Finally his dad came to pick him up. I finally met someone that lived in SL and hes from college 9. yay… my mom can stop worrying about me bussing by myself from now on. woot..
anyways my car tire was fixed by the time i got home from quicklies. YAY i caan drive to work tmr now!